Moving Onward

Monday my granddaughter started her first year of college at Lake Superior State in the Upper Peninsula. She won’t be home until Thanksgiving week. I’m missing her already but thankful she has this opportunity, this new adventure. My grandson started high school the same day. He is attending a local charter school and looking forward to his new adventures as well. He is captain of the JV soccer team and loving it. I am of course connected to both schools via Facebook.

I know you’ve heard this expression may times, but it’s true, they grow up so fast. One day you are playing games and make-believe with them on the living room floor and the next thing you know they are off to high school and college. Time doesn’t just fly, it flies when you aren’t looking.

As they get older it’s not unusual to find you are spending less time with them, so you have to make sure the times you do spend together are the best they can be, for them and for yourself. Doing things together that produce long-lasting memories. I’ve done my best to do just that and plan to keep working at it. For myself it’s taking them out to breakfast or lunch, movies, and attending events in which they participate. It’s amazing what is shared when we have face-to-face contact.

Young people face so much today that neither I nor their parents had to deal with. Rapidly changing technology, people tensions rising higher every day, world conditions more advanced, everything evolving to the extreme.

As the matriarch of the family I feel the weight of making sure the family stays in-tact and remains a unit, functioning as one, yet individually. My greatest ally in this effort is God and daily communication with Him, constantly bringing the needs of the everyone in the family to Him and leaving it with Him (not always an easy task).

“Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” John 16:33. Remember we are not alone.

Keep winging life with me.


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Spring to Summer

Well, it’s that time of year . . . graduations, open houses, final soccer tournaments, and hot summer days.

My granddaughter graduated from her second and final year of a Criminal Justice course and graduated from high school on May 31st. She has begun working a summer job to help pay for college in the fall in the Upper Peninsula. Yes, she does love snow. She is really looking forward to this new adventure. I will miss her greatly but I’m glad she will have this opportunity.

My grandson is finishing up soccer tournaments and will continue to practice during the summer months. He graduated from middle school last week and will be attending a high school charter school in the fall. He is looking forward to being on their soccer team!

We’ve experienced a few hot humid days already, of which I am not a fan (pardon the pun). Some people love that type of weather, but I am not one of them. I like 60-70 degree temps, opening windows and letting in the fresh air, preferring not to run the A/C unless absolutely necessary. Of course, one special thing about summer no matter what the temperature is ice cream. Of that I am a fan! Love those Culver’s concrete mixers!

My son finished all the painting and updates on the main floor of my condo. Next will be painting the upstairs and making a few updates there. I keep telling him painting my condo is a one-time thing. I do so appreciate all he has done at my condo and is willing to complete for me. He is very detail-oriented, a perfectionist, so sometimes it takes a little longer, but I know it is done right.

My friends who lived in Colorado Springs sold their home and moved to the Dallas, Texas area. The down side to that for me is there are no direct flights from here to Dallas. Boo! I have flown very little in my life and the thought of flying somewhere and having to change flights on the way is terrifying. I have approached a couple friends about flying there with me and both are willing to do so. One of my friends lives in the Chicago area so I could drive to her house and then fly to Dallas together. This would be a plus for her too as she would get to visit with a friend she has not seen for a long time. So, I might actually fly out and see Jim and Nancy this fall. Quite an adventure for me!

“I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, do not fear; I will help you.” Isaiah 41:13

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I had lunch today with some of my friends from Our Daily Bread Ministries. It was wonderful to catch-up with what’s going on in their lives and share updates from mine. Friends are special people God has placed in our lives to love, support, and share with us. My list of friends isn’t very long but the people on it are ones who make my life fuller.

I have been retired for almost a year now and a lot of adjustments have taken place in my life within this past year. I guess you could say I’ve gone through several “phases”. The first thing I had to adjust to was not going into work five days a week and then to the social interactions that took place either directly with me or around me during work hours. Adjusting to a new kind of quietness.

I’m not a big social person and I have always lead a pretty quiet life. I’ve liked it that way. For a variety of reasons, I do not find myself comfortable in groups bigger than four or five people. I am not good at “small” talk, I do not watch sports, travel very little, and do not have a college degree; all the things talked about in groups situations.

But back to adjusting to retirement. I also had to adjust to not feeling guilty reading a book or watching a DVD all afternoon. I remember the day I realized I no longer felt that way. I also went through a phase where I wanted to be busy all the time and then I settled back into not being so busy. Now I’ve leveled off and once again like the quiet peacefulness of just being relaxed. Nothing can replace doing what you want when you want to do it . . . or not doing it at all.

 But friends through all the “phases” of my retirement have been there; for breakfast, lunches, and coffee dates, keeping me connected to them and their lives and they connected to mine.

Easter is fast approaching and Easter reminds me of the greatest friend any of us could ever have. The ultimate friend who suffered and gave up His life for us, a whole world of people. Not just the people in Biblical times but all the people who have ever lived or will ever live. Because of Jesus death and His resurrection, we can be sin-free; at least as sin-free and any earthly person can be, and we can have a life with Him eternally when we die. What a friend!

Be especially blessed this Easter as you remember the greatest gift ever given.

“The one who died for us also walks with us.” (Our Daily Bread prayer journal)


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Catching Up

I have been very remiss in posting anything on my blog these last few months. The last posting was in November. My apologies to all.

December was filled with Christmas shopping and celebrating our Lord’s birth on Christmas Eve with the family, our traditional time. We enjoyed a meal together, read the Christmas story from Matthew and Luke, and exchanged gifts. Of course, there was lots of conservation and laughter during all that activity.

My daughter bought me a new coffee pot (the old one was slowly dying and I was glad it made it until Christmas). My son, daughter-in-law, and grandkids gave me pull-on winter cleats to put on my boots for winter walking, so I could walk safely on snow and ice.  Unfortunately, I have not been able to use them yet due to a shoulder sprain and lack of icy winter weather since that time.

Everyone chuckles when I tell them I sprained my shoulder working out at the fitness center; (added too much weight too soon . . .oops!). I have been going to physical therapy twice weekly for approximately 6 weeks and it has gotten much better. Hopefully this week will be my last week of therapy. Shoulder is at about 85% right now so it will be a little while longer before its completely back to normal. I am looking forward to carefully using the arm machines again.

A new year has dawned on us. We now face the challenges of another year of new goals (whatever they might be) and the opportunity to show more kindness and love to others. And of course, our country has a new president, which is good news for many and not so good for others who supported the opposing candidate.

No matter who we voted for our obligation as followers of Christ is to support our president and members of Congress, praying for them to have the knowledge, understanding, and wisdom to make the right decisions for our country. Romans 13:1 says, “Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God.” We can trust that God knows what He is doing even if we humans do not.

My son and I are in the midst of painting my home and making a few changes that need done. We have finished the living and dining rooms. The walls have a fresh color and we installed new blinds on both living and dining room windows. Wow, looks so different! One thing I regret is not taking “before” pictures. Although my son does not enjoy painting he does a great job. He is especially good at painting the detail areas around the ceiling and floorboards. I help by filling in the areas in between. I’m also good at handing him the drill, nails, screws, and other items as we make changes. We make a pretty good team.

I look forward to this continued new year in my own life to enjoy more blessings from God as well as the challenges that will surely come. Always taking one day at a time, enjoying it as fully as I can. Tomorrow is not promised to any of us so we must cherish each moment we have, each breath we take, each minute with family and friends.


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November – the month of elections, Thanksgiving, continued fall colors, and of course this year the Chicago Cubs winning the World Series (yes!). The calendar year is moving fast and soon we will be celebrating Christmas and the birth of our Lord Jesus.

As I noted in a previous blog, my life has gotten much busier this fall with Bible studies, workouts, and morning and afternoon walks where I breathe in fresh air and kick beautiful but color fading leaves on the sidewalk. I love the sound of the leaves as I walk, whoosh, whoosh.

I really like the new busyness. It’s enough to keep me active yet allow for quiet moments, the peacefulness I so enjoy. The one thing that has slacked off is my reading (I know, what a shock, right?). I’m back to reading about one book a week again.

I’ve enjoyed some great moments since my last blog. My granddaughter and I went to see the new Jack Reacher movie. Big thumbs up from us both! In fact, I think this second movie is better than the first one. One of the highlights for me, as in the last film, was the cameo appearance of the author of the Reacher books, Lee Child himself. Reminds me of the old Alfred Hitchcock movies (do any of you remember those? Hitchcock always appeared in his own movies).

I traveled to St. Joseph last weekend to meet my friend Annie from Illinois for lunch, something we try to do twice a year. It was so great to see her and get caught up on what has been happening in her life . . .  besides the Cubs winning. She is die-hard Cubs fan so she was in her glory when they won and she shared all those experiences with me. She was one of the 5 million people in downtown Chicago for the celebration festivities. It’s at moments like this that I miss Illinois and Chicagoland where I lived for 15 years before moving back to Michigan.

I also celebrated my sister’s birthday with her and her partner. Spent the day in their part of Michigan. We had an awesome visit and great food at a Lansing restaurant. I also got to see their cat Cheetah who I kept for them while they were in Florida for 2 months earlier this year. He remembered me so I was thrilled.

Not all my recent experiences have been good however. With the good comes the unforeseen. On a recent Friday, shortly after dropping off items at Goodwill I discovered one of the window hinges on my rear car window was broken. I was able to set it into the groove and made it to the AFC where my daughter lives, praying all the way it didn’t fall out. Barb at the AFC duct taped the hinge for me and we strung some rope to hold the window in place so I could get home safely. Big kudos to the Hyundai car dealer who worked me into their busy Saturday am schedule. Thankfully replacement hinges were in stock and I was able to leave feeling blessed and confident once more (whew!).

“Come and hear, all you who fear God; let me tell you what He has done for me.” Psalm 66:16

Stay with me as we continue to fly on wings of purple!


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Chicago PD

My reading has increased greatly since I retired. I now read several books a week instead of only one. From a very young age I have loved to read and mysteries have always been my favorite type of book. As a youngster I read all the Nancy Drew and Hardy Boy books the library had available. Now my favorite mystery books are written by authors like David Baldacci, C.J. Box, Lee Child, Michael Connelly and Brandilyn Collins on the Christian side.

My TV and movie watching falls along the same lines with action movies like Jason Bourne and Jack Reacher and TV programs like the three CSI programs, Closer, Major Crimes, Blue Bloods, and most recently my top of the list police show is Chicago PD, which does crossovers with Chicago Fire and Chicago Med.

Chicago PD has an awesome cast including Jason Beghe (Sgt. Hank Voight), Elias Koteas (Det. Alvin Olinsky), Jon Seda (Det. Antonio Dawson), Sophia Bush (Det. Erin Lindsay), Jesse Lee Soffer (Det. Jay Halstead), Patrick John Flueger (Det. Adam Ruzek), Marina Squerciati (Officer Kim Burgess), Amy Morton (Desk Sgt. Trudy Platt), LaRoyce Hawkins (Det. Kevin Atwater).

My favorite character is Det. Antonio Dawson played by Jon Seda. I like this character because he is tough, sometimes standing on the brink between right and wrong and almost losing it when the crime involves a child. Yet he is the one who usually pulls his boss Sgt. Hank Voight back from crossing that very line, showing that doing what is right is important to him. But beyond all this he is a family man even in the face of his wife and family leaving him. He tries to mend this breach and when he cannot he still continues his relationship with his children because being a dad is important to him.

To the disappointment of many, the character of Det. Antonio Dawson is about to change. He is going to receive a promotion and will be moving to a new show called Chicago Justice where he will be working for the State’s Attorney’s office as a lead investigator with his own unit. The PD and CJ shows will be doing crossovers periodically so he will not be forever gone from PD and no doubt Jon Seda will continue to do a great job in this expanded role.

There are other anticipated changes to the Dawson role including a love interest with paramedic Sylvie from Chicago Fire. (how many of you are going to be shocked that Dawson will be matched up with a younger woman? – I could say more about that but will hold it for another day, another blog).

I’ve liked Jon Seda in other roles he has played across the years especially as Det. Paul Falsone on NBC’s Homicide: Life on the Street. But what I like best about Jon Seda is who he is personally. In a recent interview Jon stated that he would not be able to do what he does (which to me is being a great actor) without the support of his wife and children.

Unlike most actors who leave their families behind when they take on a role in another state, Jon’s wife of sixteen years and his children move with him. This tells me that Jon’s first priority is his marriage and family – very admirable. His wife homeschools their children which allows them to make these moves.

Jon ~ I realize the likelihood of you ever reading this post is as the saying goes, “slim to none” but still I just want to say . . . Stay the course. Sending prayers and blessings to you and your family.

“Let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.” I John 3:18


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Fall is here and my life is getting busier. My days are filling up with things other than reading a good book. Monday’s are cleaning and laid back days (well actually every day is a laid back day – who am I trying to kid?).

Recently I started attending a church closer to where I live and in doing so have begun to attend a women’s Bible Study on Luke on Tuesday mornings, which I am enjoying very much. It’s also been nice to meet ladies my age who attend the church. They are a great group. After Bible Study we trek off to Schuler’s Books for lunch and more conversation.

Wednesday mornings I’ve been attending a Bible Study on Revelation in a neighboring town. Thursday and Friday’s it’s picking up groceries and running errands. Weekly errands of course include a least one trip to the library for books and movies.

In between these activities are lunches and coffee times with friends, sharing and catching up. These are very special times for me. I love getting together and talking about, well everything and anything.

I was so glad this past week was much less rainy. Missed a lot of walks the week of all that rain. With the cooler weather I find myself taking both morning and afternoon walks. I love walking in the cool, crisp air of autumn and seeing the beautiful color changing leaves all around me.

My grandson is in the process of playing soccer again so Saturday mornings are dedicated to seeing him play. He loves the game and is one of the best players on the team. There’s nothing like watching someone doing what they really love.

I have toyed with the idea of going out of town for a couple days, maybe to Chicago or Traverse City but sometimes it’s hard to connect with friends who are still working so I may have to table that until spring. But then again you never know what might come up.

I feel so extra thankful lately for a God who loves and cares for me. What a joy to know He is with me.

“The Lord will work out His plans for my life – for your faithful love endures forever.” Psalm 138:8

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